How to Survive the Four Stages of a Break up

by Cheryl Pierce

Love is said to be the most tremendous thing here on earth. It actually makes our lives more meaningful. In addition, loving and being loved in return or simply being in a relationship is the most fantastic experience that we can go through. Still, a euphoric and bright relationship may turn into darkness once it reaches the end of the line which is  ordinarily referred to as breaking up.

This is the time when we feel so terrible because of the aches and anguishes that we feel deep within our hearts. As a matter of fact, there are certain stages of breaking up which we are going to take on whether we like it or not.  Here are some of the most common stages of breaking up:

1st stage: The first stage touching on break ups is the feeling of shock. This is really our initial response once we find out that our relationship is about to end. This feeling is just pretty normal because no one knows when, where, and how a certain break up will happen.

2nd stage: Declining to believe that our relationship has now had to end is the second stage which we will find in a break up experience. If we haven’t been stunned with the news of breaking up then maybe, we are just in denial that something is wrong with our present relationship. We try to make ourselves consider that any cracks in our relationship are just cracks that can still be solved; when in fact such cracks are hard to fix and toughest of all, cannot be fixed anymore.

3rd stage: The third stage is depression. Being depressed after the break up is just a normal feeling. After all, no one is going to be pleased in news about breaking up. However, we only have to bear in mind not to think overly about what happened because it won’t do us any good at all.

4th stage: The last stage that we are going to come across in a break up experience is acceptance. Sometimes, the very finest way to deal with a break up is to accept the fact that our relationship was never meant to last. We just have to be happy that we have experienced the magic of love even in a short while with someone whom we really loved.  At this stage, you recognize that it is over and you in all likelihood will be willing to meet some new people to potentially date.

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